The Unified Team

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Communication Safety Assessment?

Communication is the lifeblood of business

Think back to the last problem you had…

I can guess with 85% probability, that the problem was a break down in communication.

Communication has always been important. It’s how we work together. But for Knowledge Workers, it’s even more vital.

In the old days, factories depended on keeping the line running.

We dealt in logistics, making, mining and moving things. No-one was confused what the object was. Communication was so much simpler.

Today, the workplace depends on creativity, insight and perspective.

Knowledge Workers need the right environment to be at their most creative and effective. Today, we deal in abstract things. And so we need enhanced communication.

But no-one has ever taught us how to have healthy relationships.

The 70% Relationship Problem

Across all relationships, there’s a striking failure rate…

70-90% of Mergers and Acquisitions fail.
70% of business projects and initiative fail.
70% of business partnerships fail.
60% of first time managers fail in the first 2 years
90% of romantic relationships end in the first year
50+% of marriages fail.

Business projections or acquisitions mostly fail because of communication.

Business partners disintegrate because of deteriorating relationships and loss of trust. First time managers fail because they lack the skills and confidence to move from a technical job to leading. Romantic relationships fail with communication and an inability to bridge their differences.

Marriages actually statistically perform the best.

Though, I’d argue that their figure is inflated because social, moral and financial pressures lead couples to stick it out.

Most people see a handful of relationships... I saw thousands

Hi, I’m Rob.

Since 1994 I’ve been on a quest as a Therapist, Coach and Mediator.

On average people have 5 or 6 romantic relationships. I have seen hundreds of examples close up. Because of this I noticed certain universal patterns.

People thought they were broken, or their ex was an arsehole.

Yet, actually the frames we’ve been given for relationships set us up to fail. Now I want to help people optimise their relationships.

A great relationships is a team.
A team is made of great relationships

No-one ever deliberately teaches us about relationships.

By proxy our most common teaching is from Fairy Tales and Disney Movies. We learn a lot of basic assumptions when we’re too young to think critically. Then people just assume we should be good at relationships.

A great relationship, whether it’s personal or professional, comes through three key challenges.

The challenge to understand yourself and what you want.
The challenge to be able to disagree without drama.
And the challenge to unite with purpose.

What Other's Say

Our session was life changing for me, don't know if you could tell. See below my update - which you can use as a testimonial. I am also more than happy to submit a video or a more formal testimonial if you have another process. And yes, you can use my name. I am very thankful for your approach because it helped me where I was stuck, it helped me broaden my expectations, to relax some of my requirements and reminded me to have fun with the process. And for that, I am VERY grateful!

Catherine Storing

Rob is very genuine and trustworthy. He searches deep within himself to offer his very valuable observations of tangible truth. He then offers these insights in a loving and pragmatically structured program. Whilst encouraging a perception of the ideal his focus and strategy is to encourage people to understand and adapt to their immediate reality. I would recommend Rob highly as both a personal and group counsellor.

David W.

Really balanced and approachable and useful group. Everyone can speak openly, or listen in a really supportive environment. Have really learned and developed a great deal of understanding via this group. I recommend a good talk with rob, even if you are not looking for someone to provide the solution but just want to say it (what ever comes out) and someone to understand and listen unbiased then Rob i found to be a good listener. Rob is a very knowledgeable person. When I started talking with him I wasn't sure if he can understand the things at first place, but when he started responding I was surprised to see the issue from different perspectives and opened unseen areas which helped me to get energy to give a try again. I respect him for his diversity and richness in knowledge.

Umesh

Rob is personally known to me from his work in the field of personal relationships, & what it takes to build a happy, or successful one… He facilitated a Gp in Norwich, on this theme, & all of us who participated, benefited a lot from his practical input, skills, & wisdom… But more than this, Rob is someone you can trust for his honesty, authenticity, & direct approach, (or "straight talking"…) He "tells it as he sees it", & this can be extremely helpful & beneficial, especially when it comes to life coaching…

Filip

I had a couple of conversations with Rob. There was one sentence he gave me that changed everything for me. I suddenly saw that I was investing my energy in business and personal relationships that were frustrating because my efforts weren't being reciprocated. As soon as I realised this, I focused my efforts on the relationships that I could grow and nurture. The result is that I have developed closer relationships with my children and family and let go of much of the worry and anxiety that came with the other relationships.

Janice

Work With Me

I share everything I’ve learn and figured out for free here. But if you need a personal or corporate relationship fixed quick, I’ll facilitate it.

Reframe relationships

The way we think about relationships determines how the relationship unfolds.

I’ll share what I’ve learned after seeing so many relationships.

Fix Your romantic relationship

Want to save or change your intimate relationship?

We’ll work together for 12 weeks to transform your relationship. I’ll be walking you through my three step programme to change the way you interact.

Fix A Work relationship

Got a work relationship that’s stopping things getting done?

We’ll work together for 12 weeks to transform your relationship. I’ll be walking you through my three step programme to change the way you interact.

The Unified Team

Has Your Team Taken The
Communication Safety Assessment?